No matter how tired, or how much discord in the home should not convey the negative emotions to the baby!
From the October pregnancy to the occurrence of the baby, the mother’s life added color, to be able to cry with you and watch you laugh, we grow together, the mother’s life has some more experience! It seems that life has just started from this moment!
This day I saw dad and mom quarreling on the way home from work, the child was on the sidelines, looking especially cute, parents quarrel from time to time also pointing to the baby a little, it seems that both parents are how angry, but also anger to the child! The child is on the sidelines shrinking in a ball.
The family has a difficult to read, which mother is not while desperate to bear? Tired, often so tired that they want to cry.
But even if you are tired, you can’t transfer your emotions to your child, right? Otherwise, what else will be conveyed to the child but negative complaints and negative emotions?
So no matter what, please don’t transfer your negative emotions to your child.
Child education expert Li Meijin once said: Why does your child refuse to communicate with you? Because he is afraid of being blamed.
Accusations represent complaints, represent dissatisfaction, and over time, like invisible arrows, will hurt an innocent heart to the bone.
This is a lot of adults, due to childhood from the parents of harm, how many years are living in the shadow. Because the parents as a child hate and abandonment, will think that they are bad, this bad impression deep into the marrow, so that his life and their own serious.
The flexible education of mother’s love can profoundly affect children, and there are many such examples in our lives; Edison, the famous invention king, was seen as a child with low IQ by his school teachers when he was a child, but Edison’s mother did not give up and raised her child to become a great scientist.
The increasing pace of life, whether in big cities or small cities, parents live in a tense mood, work and family problems have made your heart pine! We restrain as much as possible, both parents have problems should not be angry under the face of the child, should be effective communication.
Home should be a warm harbor, parents should cherish this warm atmosphere to give their children a good environment to grow up!
